Own it
Frame the point as your own view or choice instead of a judgment about the other person.
Serious advice · Praise first
“Be honest — does this presentation work?”
Humor · Ask back
“So... is this a date, or just dinner?”
Humor · Sidestep
“Must be nice to have a long weekend.”
Serious advice · Own it
“You've been quiet all dinner. Are you upset with us?”
Serious advice · Admit and explain
“This was due yesterday. What happened?”
Humor · Sidestep
“Mind if I ask what a job like that pays?”